Posted on: 24-01-03 12:58:19
Bhai aap log kaise jinda ho is mulk me, mere to koi sage wale bhi nahi hain, Sirf haunsala hain, uppar wale ne chaha to mera bhi business hoga ekdin inshallah,baki main yeh soch raha tha ki aap logo me yeha koi networking ha ya nahi. Main jis school me amerika me tha waha to desi ekdusre ki parwah karte the yeha to ek dusre se baat karna bhi nahi pasand karte. aisa kyon shayad aap log bhi personally milo to shayad nazare na milao.
Aisa kyo? Yeh mahaul to badalna chahiye, God willing main agar yeha tik gaya to yeh mahaul jaroor badloonga, aap logo ki duaye chahiye.
shukriya/muchas gracias
I don't what you are saying is there or not.
I feel that we are attached - I am not sure about you, but usually desis finds companies of each-other quite easily.
Again sometimes it might happen that people do not share information with each-other in the fear of loosig their own position, but this might not be true everywhere.
Don't be upset - join somewhre - if you have not done so far. Join Swaminarayan, Join Sanatan Mandir, or join whereever you like, you will not feel what you are feeling right now.
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A Proud Indian Canadian
Main to amerika me 2 ghante drive karke swami naarayan mandir jata tha weekends par, waha to sabhi puchte hain aap kaha se aaye ho aur kya kar rahe hain. lekin yeha to desiyo me communication ke sakht kammi hain. Bhai I hope its clear to you. The desi folks dont care to say basic courtseys like "Hi ! how u doin". God willing this scenario has to change.
I think if I dont run back to US in next week I will make a difference. But pehle pappi pet ka sawal hain? or else I am off to US.
Yeha ka local swami narayan samaj kahan hain?
It might take some time - I have feeling that they are good people. Keep trying.
Or else, if you have made mind to go back in US, then it is different story.
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A Proud Indian Canadian
US me to mera Visa Nov tak hain uske bad allah malik hain, lekin yeh bataye
ki PR card ke baad kitne time mulk se bahar rah sakte hain, aur yeha desiyo ko desi ladkiyon se shadi karni padti ha ya desi aur videsi ka combination chlta hai
main ek Cuban girlfriend US me rakh ke aaya hoon. Lekin main uska istemal green card ke liye nahi krana chahta hoon.
Swaminarayan Temple is here:
http://www.canadiandesi.ca/samaj.php?SID=16
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A Proud Indian Canadian
