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Originally posted by Ashyana
they are your parents or like parents, don't run away from them, your mother kept u inside her for 9 months to make you a normal human. remember whatever you do with your elders, will come back to you from your children. It is just a matter of few days or months... Be patience !
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Originally posted by morning_rain
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Originally posted by Ashyana
they are your parents or like parents, don't run away from them, your mother kept u inside her for 9 months to make you a normal human. remember whatever you do with your elders, will come back to you from your children. It is just a matter of few days or months... Be patience !
Just because the above is so, doesnt make it easy. Its also true that MIL's who are or have been DILs need to remember what it was like for them and not to treat them with unfair expectations.
Please dont preach. By doing so, you are minimalizing the feelings and experiences of those that have gone through bad situations.
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Originally posted by explorer101
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Originally posted by morning_rain
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Originally posted by Ashyana
they are your parents or like parents, don't run away from them, your mother kept u inside her for 9 months to make you a normal human. remember whatever you do with your elders, will come back to you from your children. It is just a matter of few days or months... Be patience !
Just because the above is so, doesnt make it easy. Its also true that MIL's who are or have been DILs need to remember what it was like for them and not to treat them with unfair expectations.
Please dont preach. By doing so, you are minimalizing the feelings and experiences of those that have gone through bad situations.
MIL is hated lot by DIL and when DIL's mother marries her son and then she become MIL and troubles her DIL. Then why her daughter who her self illtreats and disrepect her MIL preach to her babhi. What a dauble standard. What is spencial in a girls mother which is not present in a boys mother.
In India property share is given by boys mother and not by girls mother. In hard times guys parents take care, girls parents do little/ nothing. 99 % of Indian women will never learn this. Thank God my wife is not like -----. She respects my father like anything. morning can i have a chat with ur husband to know about so called " bad situation " or u would like to eloborate here. What you have done for your MIL will be nothing as compared to what she would have done for you. Even when you can say so much bad about her here i can well understand how much you would be saying to her.
Mother in law coming to meet her son to Canada should be a pleasure rather can a so called curse. I pity on -----.
Can anyone give information about any groups/clubs/regular activites taking place for elderly parents in Mississauga? [That can keep MILs busy and help them make friends among similar age people.]
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