Communicating via email


Jump to Page:
< Previous  [ 1 ]    Next >




KumarM   
Member since: Jan 09
Posts: 881
Location:

Post ID: #PID Posted on: 19-01-09 13:52:00

I always tell my friends and relatives in North America not to send casual emails to me, like how are you, how are things, etc. IMO emails lack personal touch. They are best when sending out information to number of recipient or when people want to avoid talking to each other. I always wonder what is more important, 10c-15c a week/fortnight or the relationship.

I hope there are others who have the same thoughts.

KM



blorean   
Member since: Apr 08
Posts: 528
Location:

Post ID: #PID Posted on: 19-01-09 14:17:20

Nice topic. But this is a typical case of abuse of convenience. Something created with a noble intent take a different turn and rears its ugly head. There has been some extensive study done on the damage internet has caused on social life.

See here: http://www.statcan.gc.ca/pub/56f0004m/56f0004m2008016-eng.pdf

The correct answer to your question is of course relationships are more important. But in reality I think we all try and get away with sending an email or chatting online. That and the reduced inter-dependency between humans due to increased self-sufficiency has caused the society to become more dispersed. The fundamental definition of society has been altered by internet IMO.


-----------------------------------------------------------------
If you have a gun, you can rob a bank.
If you have a bank, you can rob everyone.
- Bill Maher


pratickm   
Member since: Feb 04
Posts: 2831
Location: Toronto

Post ID: #PID Posted on: 19-01-09 14:20:18

To each his own.
I actually like my friends (in NA or anywhere across the world) to send me a quick email asking how things are going or to give their own little updates like how they are doing, what's latest with them etc.

What I do hate is people sending me mind-numbing, senseless forwarded, chain emails.
When someone sends me such, it tell me that they are saying I am too busy to write 2 lines of personal message to you, but I have all the time in the world to read and forward jokes, news and other mind-numbing nonsense.

I agree that a 10 min. phone call is always better and more personal, but with childhood friends scattered all across the world, in different time zones and everyone having incredibly busy schedules and delicate work/life balances, I understand that it's not always possible to make phone calls.
Sometimes a phone call catches me at the wrong time, and sometimes I catch someone at a wrong time with my call.
So, I prefer emails because it gives me the luxury to read and reply when I have the time.
That way, I can devote much more time and attention to what I read and write, rather than make a hectic phone call while sitting in brutal traffic to someone 3 time zones across who's probably having dinner.


-----------------------------------------------------------------
"Mah deah, there is much more money to be made in the destruction of civilization than in building it up."

-- Rhett Butler in "Gone with the Wind"


guptamik   
Member since: Mar 05
Posts: 277
Location: Toronto

Post ID: #PID Posted on: 19-01-09 16:31:02

I have to also say that a quick email is actually good for the relationship. If you look at it, we get very busy with our lives from work to kids to daily chores and by the time we get to sit down and think about anything, it's quite late (11pm in my case). So unless my friends are in india or the west coast, calling doesn't make sense. Now, to wait for a time to call can actually lead to months before one communicates to their friends. In the case of email, I think we all spend a lot of time in front of our computers so it makes natural sense to email or use IM to communicate. This doesn't mean one shouldn't call, it simply means that at least send a note to say hi to let your friend know you are thinking of them. A tru friendship will not go south because of emails but like Patrick sats, you send spam and yes, there's no guarantee you'll still have a friend :)



sville   
Member since: Dec 08
Posts: 242
Location:

Post ID: #PID Posted on: 19-01-09 21:52:11

Each mode has it's own benefits. It's good to take benefit of each.
I usually prefer phone over email. When it's high priority task, phone obviously take precedence. The personal touch you get over phone is not possible from email.

But keep in mind that for phone you need both parties available and both parties being not in middle of any task ( meal, pooja, shower, snow plowing, etc)

Emails are good for dropping information, one way information for which you don't care or can live without the response atleast for a short period of time.
"Hey you got our Ramu kaka's number?"

Or, top 10 interview questions .. or some Indian dish receipe. It's tough for me to go over phone. I'll prefer an email.

I'll close in favor of phone - Email shows that your are active. Phone shows that you care.



Fido   
Member since: Aug 06
Posts: 5286
Location: Canada

Post ID: #PID Posted on: 19-01-09 21:58:44

An advantage of emails over phone is as mentioned , both parties need not be available at the same time and either can respond per convenience .... For legal technical issues such as accounts / lawyer / seeking info , I would prefer emails.


-----------------------------------------------------------------
Fido.




Jump to Page: < Previous  [ 1 ]    Next >

Discussions similar to: Communicating via email

Topic Forum Views Replies
need a job, java programmer
Wanted 1083 1
Main to Lakhpati Ban Gaya!!!!! ( 1 2 )
General 3393 10
Massood's plea to CDs: Please DO NOT send me private messages on canadiandesi
Ask Immigration Expert 3225 1
Parents Migration problem
Family Class 1382 3
Server administrators and may be spammers
Science & Technology 1436 0
Chat rooms. Are we loosing human touch? ( 1 2 )
General 1616 7
Yahoo popups reg security
Science & Technology 1033 3
NRIs plan email campaign
News and Events 982 0
Customs duty on electronics purchased in USA ( 1 2 )
General 2237 7
Looking for Friends
Canadian Sakhi 1823 5
Friends
Networking 1433 2
HINDI uber alles!
Arts and Culture 1467 1
Job offer from Nigeria
News and Events 1280 4
How to send group email
General 1555 4
Communicating via email
Life 1263 5
POP3 or IMAP on mail clients and synchronizing them.
Science & Technology 1413 3
Fake Lotteries
General 1567 3
New Delhi and neighbourhood People - lets be in touch. ( 1 2 3 4 5 )
Networking 5765 28
How to retrieve old e-mails
General 913 1
How Social networking sites/Facebook Ruins Friendships
General 1087 0
Search not working in Yahoo mail
Science & Technology 936 2
just enjoy
Have Fun! 1593 3
Sexual oreinted emails being blasted to CD members
Feedback and Comments 1594 4
How to sort in Yahoo ( 1 2 )
Science & Technology 922 7
Organize Work
General 1430 4
 


Share:
















Advertise Contact Us Privacy Policy and Terms of Usage FAQ
Canadian Desi
© 2001 Marg eSolutions


Site designed, developed and maintained by Marg eSolutions Inc.