Appu comes to Canada from India, and he's only here a few months when he becomes very ill. He goes to doctor after doctor, but none of them can help him. Finally, he goes to an Indian doctor.

The doctor says, "Take dis bucket, go into de other room, shit in de bucket, piss on de shit, and then put your head down over de bucket and breathe in de fumes for ten minutes."

Appu takes the bucket, goes into the other room, shits in the bucket, pisses on the shit, bends over, and breathes in the fumes for ten minutes.

Then he comes back to the doctor and says, "It worked. I feel terrific. What was it?"

The doctor says, "You were homesick."

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You know you are a desi when ........ You spew forth the virtues of India, but don't want to live there...............You've never had a tanning salon membership

I feel we kep on trying optioins and then there s a time when we wish to settle down ..... As some one once told me - as you grow older , you long for your roots ...

I personally would love to go back to India , try it for some years , and then again come back if I want to ... Life towards the end is about fulfilment of heart's desire ....

I think its evolution and nothing else ... as they say .. human beings sacriice their life n health early on to gain money and then lose money later in life to regain health ... its evolution ...

But in this case/s , the situaiton is different as your life partners are of different values .. but I guess felxibility shd be there to a certain extent ...from both sides .

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