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Orginally posted by morning_rain
LOL... thats why I prefer self arranged aka love marriages
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Orginally posted by desi in ottawa
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Orginally posted by morning_rain
LOL... thats why I prefer self arranged aka love marriages
So u think self arranged aka love marriages are stable? Look at the divorce rate in North America. They fall in love/date/have fun for years, get married, and boom, bitter seperation/divorce battles.
No system is perfect. It's all individual attitude.
DIO
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I dont think love marriages are any more/less stable than arranged or 'introduced' marriages.
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Orginally posted by MadammeX
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I dont think love marriages are any more/less stable than arranged or 'introduced' marriages.
I agree. Also, in the East, marriage is a huge responsibility. EVen these arranged or "introduced" marriages sometimes just force people to stay together for fear of upsetting the elders in their families or bringing shame to their family name, etc. And let's not forget... some marriages are only of convenience! If this were to stop suddenly, then the divorce rate would be just as high as "love" marriage.
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Maybe you r right...but I notice that the patience to carry on a marriage is lesser in the west...their desire for a change overtakes their desire to sustain...I guess the reason is that everyone lives for themselves and he or she wants the best out of life on a daily basis...anything monotonous or routine makes them seeks a change...but this is not really true at work places...at work they dont mind the same rig marole and inside the box scenario
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Orginally posted by Rohit69
Maybe you r right...but I notice that the patience to carry on a marriage is lesser in the west...their desire for a change overtakes their desire to sustain...I guess the reason is that everyone lives for themselves and he or she wants the best out of life on a daily basis...anything monotonous or routine makes them seeks a change...but this is not really true at work places...at work they dont mind the same rig marole and inside the box scenario
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You're right.. I've observed that as well.
I guess because with work, you get money and to some that's obviously more important than let's say... a relationship. Cuz just a relationship doesn't pay the bill or buys shiny things. (Just look at these "Who wants to marry a millionaire" type shows!)
And people know that they have to suck it up and put up with all kinds of crap @ work no matter what. They don't have much control over their work lives. But they don't want the same scenario at home. Everything out of control might be too much to handle?
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