Say that u r invited to a party. Is it polite to ask who else is coming? I think its ok. Wify thinks that’s impolite. Some of our friends ask us when we throw a party and we tell them who else is coming.
So far we have not asked, even with our good friends. I want to start somewhere.
DIO
Dio,
As far as i know, it is polite. The host might be asking this to prepare for the no of guests who are coming. They also may ask this so that they can know and prepare better for the kind of people whom you bring along. for eg. if a north indian brings a south indian guest , the host may try to join/ mingle the SI with some SI's who come to the party or atleast warn his other guests to speak in English and not in Hindi (You must be knowing by now that when NI's gather, they always speak in Hindi assuming that every desi knows Hindi).
As far as Gora's are concerned, It is also seen as a polite move so that they can prepare for food/ seating for those coming.
Just ny views though.
TK A
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I am a Gents and not a Ladies.
I think its ok. In fact I just did Yesterday. But again, my wife did not approve that at first. I asked to check if my Daughter will have some company or not. BTW, everything is OK for us (Guys).
Same Old Questoin - Ladki Kyon Na Jane Kyon Ladko Si Nahi Hoti? (Dont start anything & Hijack this thread)
Side Note: ... When I first Looked at the Question - Borat came to my Mind
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Originally posted by tamilkuravan
Dio,
As far as i know, it is polite. The host might be asking this to prepare for the no of guests who are coming. They also may ask this so that they can know and prepare better for the kind of people whom you bring along. for eg. if a north indian brings a south indian guest , the host may try to join/ mingle the SI with some SI's who come to the party or atleast warn his other guests to speak in English and not in Hindi (You must be knowing by now that when NI's gather, they always speak in Hindi assuming that every desi knows Hindi).
As far as Gora's are concerned, It is also seen as a polite move so that they can prepare for food/ seating for those coming.
Just ny views though.
TK A
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Originally posted by freakoutguy
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Originally posted by tamilkuravan
Dio,
You got it the other way around. He''s asking if the guest can ask the host about who else is invited.
That's how I interpret it.
DIO as in the famous guitarist?
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Originally posted by desi in ottawa
Say that u r invited to a party. Is it polite to ask who else is coming? I think its ok. Wify thinks that’s impolite. Some of our friends ask us when we throw a party and we tell them who else is coming.
So far we have not asked, even with our good friends. I want to start somewhere.
DIO
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Chandresh
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Originally posted by chandresh
But otherwise...........................your wify is right!
Would you like if someone turned down YOUR invitation after knowing who all were or were not invited???
Chandresh
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