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Originally posted by chandresh
And yes, when we decided to come to Canada in 1998, we did not have internet and no knowledge of this place........but today or in last 10 years if anyone says people have been fooled by Canada, he is not only wrong, but a bigger fool than many others. I personally have been a failure career wise, but by no means ready to go to India simply coz I do not want to further spoil my life there.
You are right Pendse that India has changed a lot. However, the change has been more of bad change than good change in my personal opinion - or things that I value more. And it is not that I am disconnected with India. Coming from a very large family, I have very strong ties with India, and visit India at least once in 18 months on an average. Yes, the salaries and life styles have gone up, but so has the traffic, chaos, and pollution. Yes, the quality of restaurants have gone up, but so have the impatience of public. Yes, the commuting has more trains/planes/buses, but so is the corruption. I prefer a once a fortnight cleaning lady in my house here, than live in or chutte ki maid servant who give more trouble than provide help. I prefer to clean my own dishes than hear the people constantly shouting at house help and abusing them in India. I prefer to breath the clean air in Canada than making more money in India and constantly inhaling black smoke and dust.
Career wise.......I prefer to be a low paid accounting clerk in Canada or work in factory where my life and dignity is respected rather than in a white collar job in India where the .............(the less said the better)
And no, Canada has not spoilt me.......infact it has brought me closer to it than how I felt about it before coming to Canada. Canada has a lot of things similar to India, which I did not face when I was in Singapore for 16 years before landing in Canada.
And so, in my opinion, life with low paid jobs is much better and respectful than so called good jobs in India. But yes, once day, at the right time I shall go back to India to retire......simply because at that time company of school friends and family will be all that I will need.
So Canada is better for people who love cleaner air, less traffic and pollution, and a more relaxed life. For money and peons and servants, India is better.
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Chandresh
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Originally posted by chandresh
You are right Pendse that India has changed a lot. However, the change has been more of bad change than good change in my personal opinion - or things that I value more. And it is not that I am disconnected with India. Coming from a very large family, I have very strong ties with India, and visit India at least once in 18 months on an average. Yes, the salaries and life styles have gone up, but so has the traffic, chaos, and pollution. Yes, the quality of restaurants have gone up, but so have the impatience of public. Yes, the commuting has more trains/planes/buses, but so is the corruption. I prefer a once a fortnight cleaning lady in my house here, than live in or chutte ki maid servant who give more trouble than provide help. I prefer to clean my own dishes than hear the people constantly shouting at house help and abusing them in India. I prefer to breath the clean air in Canada than making more money in India and constantly inhaling black smoke and dust.
Career wise.......I prefer to be a low paid accounting clerk in Canada or work in factory where my life and dignity is respected rather than in a white collar job in India where the .............(the less said the better)
And no, Canada has not spoilt me.......infact it has brought me closer to it than how I felt about it before coming to Canada. Canada has a lot of things similar to India, which I did not face when I was in Singapore for 16 years before landing in Canada.
And so, in my opinion, life with low paid jobs is much better and respectful than so called good jobs in India. But yes, once day, at the right time I shall go back to India to retire......simply because at that time company of school friends and family will be all that I will need.
So Canada is better for people who love cleaner air, less traffic and pollution, and a more relaxed life. For money and peons and servants, India is better.
In 1999, when I was in the similar dilemma whether to go or not go, leaving a well settled life in India, one of friends, who had well-travelled abroad in those days, advised me to take a risk of 2 years. He said that I have lived in India for almost 35 years so if I can take a risk of 2 years, I should go for 2 years, try my best in upgrading myself, learning the rules of the land and exploring the potentials in the western world. After 2 years, come back to India, stay for 2 months and then decide where to settle.
I think, this acid test of 2 years still valid nowadays.
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A Delhite in Toronto
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Originally posted by Delhite
In 1999, when I was in the similar dilemma whether to go or not go, leaving a well settled life in India, one of friends, who had well-travelled abroad in those days, advised me to take a risk of 2 years. He said that I have lived in India for almost 35 years so if I can take a risk of 2 years, I should go for 2 years, try my best in upgrading myself, learning the rules of the land and exploring the potentials in the western world. After 2 years, come back to India, stay for 2 months and then decide where to settle.
I think, this acid test of 2 years still valid nowadays.
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Originally posted by chandresh
You are right Pendse that India has changed a lot. However, the change has been more of bad change than good change in my personal opinion - or things that I value more. And it is not that I am disconnected with India. Coming from a very large family, I have very strong ties with India, and visit India at least once in 18 months on an average. Yes, the salaries and life styles have gone up, but so has the traffic, chaos, and pollution. Yes, the quality of restaurants have gone up, but so have the impatience of public. Yes, the commuting has more trains/planes/buses, but so is the corruption. I prefer a once a fortnight cleaning lady in my house here, than live in or chutte ki maid servant who give more trouble than provide help. I prefer to clean my own dishes than hear the people constantly shouting at house help and abusing them in India. I prefer to breath the clean air in Canada than making more money in India and constantly inhaling black smoke and dust.
Career wise.......I prefer to be a low paid accounting clerk in Canada or work in factory where my life and dignity is respected rather than in a white collar job in India where the .............(the less said the better)
And no, Canada has not spoilt me.......infact it has brought me closer to it than how I felt about it before coming to Canada. Canada has a lot of things similar to India, which I did not face when I was in Singapore for 16 years before landing in Canada.
And so, in my opinion, life with low paid jobs is much better and respectful than so called good jobs in India. But yes, once day, at the right time I shall go back to India to retire......simply because at that time company of school friends and family will be all that I will need.
So Canada is better for people who love cleaner air, less traffic and pollution, and a more relaxed life. For money and peons and servants, India is better.
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A Delhite in Toronto
First of all we need to separate IT from the rest of the professions. IT professionals have arpund 90 % hiring rate.
Apart from that other peofessions come with ac50 % or less survival rate. In the remaining around 30 are happy with labour job, cash job, mac donalds etc.. in this many refugees and low level immigrants will fit in.
Around 20 % or the less are the ones who get dinged.
TK aka Murali
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