It is terrible, people freaking, stress out. Equally worse is what prompted this guy to throw his ex out of the 10th. flr window (in today's Toronto Star) just b'cos his other older ex had fixed up a date for his recently ex'ed gal. Fits of temper, fury of scorn.
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Values and a level of maturity have a lot to play in such situations ---- how much the scenario would change if it were Canada / US OR / AND if they were in mid 40s probably in their 2nd marriages ........ maturity comes with age and experience .
Recently I came across a news from India in which a 21 year old killed his 45 year old widow mother on account of her illicit relationships ----- wonder how correct was it on his part to take some ones life ?? ...... sorry for the digression but I feel things and circumstances are carved out by the values of the society we live in --- a DPS RK Puram incident became a national news in India and I am sure here in Canada it would not even be an eyebrow raiser .
Absolutely Values and Maturity are the key players. Families also play a major role in making or breaking a relation.
Sometimes people have big fights right after the marriage which may be due to misunderstandings/miscommunication/misinterpretation/misjudgements but after spending some more time they get to know each other more! So TIME also counts!
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If a relationship comes with a warranty card that says change if it does not work, then it’s a different ballgame.
It does come with Warranty but you get to read Fine Prints only after marriage.
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Originally posted by Fido
Values and a level of maturity have a lot to play in such situations ---- how much the scenario would change if it were Canada / US OR / AND if they were in mid 40s probably in their 2nd marriages ........ maturity comes with age and experience .
Recently I came across a news from India in which a 21 year old killed his 45 year old widow mother on account of her illicit relationships ----- wonder how correct was it on his part to take some ones life ?? ...... sorry for the digression but I feel things and circumstances are carved out by the values of the society we live in --- a DPS RK Puram incident became a national news in India and I am sure here in Canada it would not even be an eyebrow raiser .
Absolutely Values and Maturity are the key players. Families also play a major role in making or breaking a relation.
Sometimes people have big fights right after the marriage which may be due to misunderstandings/miscommunication/misinterpretation/misjudgements but after spending some more time they get to know each other more! So TIME also counts!
hey thats a good one.. maybe thats why a miss becomes a missus after marriage, get it, har har!![]()
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If it was printed, one could read somehow before marriage. If it is not printed, then one has to assume everything. That's dangerous.
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Mumbai Maazi Ladki ...
The whole thing sounds like another story in the lines of 'Life in a Metro'.. any one saw the movie?
I am guessing the new dowry law misuse cases ( You can get many websites on this like http://www.498a.org/ ) are also driving people to take these extreme steps. If given a choice between 'end it all' and 'get my parents and myself harassed for life', many young bloods will choose the former.
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Originally posted by Maharaj
Fine Prints that I am talking about is there to read but one needs "marriage glass" to read. That Script does not make sense before marriage. Signs are everywhere, but it is difficult to relate to when single. It takes time to come to terms of Marriage. And in this world of 20-20, very few have patience for Test Matches.
I can't believe I am posting this. It's not even Monday ...![]()
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