I was never your friend . Show me even a single post where I endorsed you .

There were many PM's in which you acknowledged many of my postings. Unfortunately, due to limited space in CD, I have deleted them all. let me check in my gmail and post it.


This is exactly what we feel when you contribute to most threads here ..

That is your opinion and some others opinion to. I have other opinion's who are happy to see me post

Murali krishna

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I fail to understand what are you trying to prove !! .
Anyways hope you were able to conclude that its very easy to turn friends into enemies . You claimed many times that you helped many immigrants here to settle but no one ever wanted to even touch base with you . I now know why . Do you ???

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I was never your friend . Show me even a single post where I endorsed you .

There were many PM's in which you acknowledged many of my postings. Unfortunately, due to limited space in CD, I have deleted them all. let me check in my gmail and post it.


This is exactly what we feel when you contribute to most threads here ..

That is your opinion and some others opinion to. I have other opinion's who are happy to see me post

Murali krishna

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The way you came up, I've seen so many folks around me (falling under different discipline inlcuding civil engg., tool and die makers, chemists, sales people) have been doing well (not just pretending) what I call a very reasonable life with house ownership, outfits, vehicles etc.,

Sure, there are people who have been struggling for a long time, there could be different reasons including luck but a decent proportion of folks are doing well, that is my point.

In life, what you think and aspire is what you become or at least as close as possible. I wouldn't have raised my own peeves if all those frugal sources have been lighted as alternative backups should one struggle. Not to keep pointing them out as sole source.

The likelihood of getting your aspirations shattered is very high at the initial stage of immigration or just before you make the journey. This is the part the OP keeps hitting. It doesn't make any sense to judge any one or speak about their personality etc., I still remember how much of negativity our fellow desi's unload on new immigrants, I was no exception, I was little shaken also though I had a job offer within two weeks and financial means to support (plus a good familiar North American backdrop).

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But you would be amazed with level of negativity inflicted on new professionals who migrate in search of a better life for their offsprings. He is certainly one of the person who wields greatest negativity and intention to shatter dreams of others to the extent that it has affected many (who succumbed his stupid arguments without knowing his intentions.

Any time he posts helping jobs, apartment, etc.., need to be tracked and get the suckers out of being walloped in.

Unlike many think he is doing it just out of his own misery, my stand is that he follows this as a mission to ruin people's aspirations.

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What you call negativity is the real picture of Canadian immigration. What's wrong with calling spade a spade? I didn't have to struggle much, but there are others I see day in and night on the streets for whom the Canadian dream gone sour. Let's admit it, we have a prestige issues when he let perspective immigrants know about the soup-kitchens, community shelters, cheap Ikea food, etc. What if he said there are Gurdwaras and local Hindu temples, where you're offered free food 24x7? I am sure noone would've objected. I am not trying to be a devil's advocate here, but merely showing one part of the story is wrong, as do Canadian Govt. does. So, what's the harm in knowing that there are certain places where you can get a free/cheap food - just to keep it as a contingency plan? One doesn't want to go hungry in the days of struggle, I guess. I came to this country with only $250 in my pocket. Had it not for my uncle who gave me a place to live with an amazing food and respect/help all that I needed, who knows I would be vying for these free/cheap food myself. Knowing about an option is better than none, even if you don't avail.

Noone can shatter your dreams and aspirations than you yourself. If your will is that weak to be affected by someone else's negativity in this day and age of super-information and internet, then my dear friend you know it well as to who needs help. Everyone is responsible or his/her own actions and the results thereof.

Actually, we all need help out of our superiority complex.

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The cowards never started,
The weak died on the way,
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