Should I believe on person who lied to me so many times, broke promises but says, he loves me?
I am completely broke, am not able to control my pain. I loved him from bottom of my heart. I still can't stop remembring him and his promises every second of day & night.

This forum is not meant for these type of questions!

you mean If somebody has some question bothering him or her; can't ask?
Did you make the rule yourself?

You shouldn't believe the person who broke the promises.

Saying 'Love you' is different thing and what people do as action. You should believe in person's action not what they say. I am not saying you shouldn't trust people. You should trust people, but not blindly. Also, if you allow people to cross boundry they will 'take it granted' and they could play with you if you allow them.

I wouldn't put only blame on other person, but you have to be strong as well by not letting other to hurt you. Like, if someone have really hurt you, you have to show strong action so they dont treat you like granted. There should be some fear. It's upto you also.

Its very sad that some people are emotionally playing with others feeling but cant do what they have said.
Also, you can analyze other person's situation; may be other person is trying to do what he says but sometimes situation can get wrong and person can't keep promise so dont judge person ...and their feeling of love..just what they can do for you everday..some times its too much demand.
You can see, if you are sick..or you have emergency and other person can undersand and behave like what any good person should do..he loves you..but with day to day demand you can't judge other person how much he loves you or no.. what if he have keep 1 promise today and broke another tomorrow.. he don't love you..he may love you but his situation is different that he can't keep promise.
relationship should not be demanding on both side.. Love has no return ..love could be ..be with each other and understand each other .

You are familiar with the person who cheated you.
How we can advise/ suggest you with out knowing the details of that person?

Either the person is a Compulsive liar or a Cheat by default.


You your self say that the person has lied to you so many times.

You your self say that the person says he loves you.

You your self tell me, should you believe a liar ?

You should drop him ( from mind too ) like Hot Potato.

The sooner, the better for you. Love should bring Nostalgia - Not Nightmares !!

Never trust a person who has deceived you unless you are a saint .

The output of everything is how we perceive it + what actually is - sometimes , in fact most of the times both are very different and its wise to accept the reality.

Denial will hurt , acceptance is the panacea .

Its good to consult as many people as you can - their advice helps you.

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