Reality of being abroad


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gopalpai   
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Post ID: #PID Posted on: 08-09-09 21:52:30

There are more than 200 people who read my thread and only 5 replied to my thread. I don't have to tell rest of the story........

think of other people, don't be selfish and think of yourself and your knowledge.




P.s. It simply magnifies the problem. My reply was for this thread.


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benparsad   
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Post ID: #PID Posted on: 08-09-09 23:39:53

So you assume 'more than 195, out of >200' liked it.

My idea was not to hurt you. It is a good gesture to mention the source (actual writer), if the write up is not from e mail bank. Plz read my post again, I said your write ups (if not all) are nice; however can't comment how much they are helpful to reduce pain and depression.

-Ben



jaidev   
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Post ID: #PID Posted on: 09-09-09 05:08:52

Quote:
Originally posted by sville

Quote:
Originally posted by gopalpai
When I read thread like somebody's visa is rejected or somebody failed in IELTS and the person is depressed or a person has decided to return back home since he did not get job for past one year, then I can feel the pain and depression they are going through.


"Solution", that's what we need. There is no limit on number of problems that anybody can identify. You don't need a brain for that.
If you feel the pain of the person who failed IELTS, rather than disclosing that pain, try giving resources that could help that person or anybody else pass IELTS. Don't you think that's more important than just Ctrl-C Ctrl-V?
I understand your concern. But you concern just doesn't help. It simply magnifies the problem.





The solution lies in understanding What one needs rather than pursuing what one wants. Wants have no limitations, but needs are limited. For the whole life, we run here and there, struggle, work hard and also achieve, what we want, but at the end of the day, we realise what we wanted was not what we needed. But at that time it is too late to change, because at that time nothing is under your control, not even your body(health)

It is very necessary to go deep within and decide what we need. If we have everything but still we are not satisfied, peaceful, happy, then whatever our possessions, wealth, are of no use to us.
We cannot base our happiness on things which are themselves destructive.









G13   
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Post ID: #PID Posted on: 09-09-09 07:41:01

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