hello,

We too have nadi dosh, after few month of our marraige we have some Puja at Shiv mandir,Fortunately we have kids. It is not always true that people do not have kids if both have same nadi.In nadi dosh you have baby boy all the kids are baby boy and if it is baby girl all the kids are baby girl after first kid. This is all assumption ,no proof just belief.I have seen lots of people with nadi dosh who have kids.

And belief is mightier than anything else !!!

Nadi dosha , mangal dosha , ashlesha nakshatra ~ all have their own connotations if you believe in them .

Humans have a tendency to rest logic on something they find convenient . Its just a matter of faith - if you believe in something then your sub conscious will make it happen , if you don't , you are relieved from that .

I have known couples who love married and years after their marriage , astrologers disbelieved that they were happy and living . On the contrary I wonder what miserable lives they would have lived had they believed in horoscopes and known their mismatch .

Lets not forget that all these doshas are found only in Hindu astrology and Hindus themselves comprise a minority - what about the rest ?

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Hi Rugrat,

I know what you are going thru. We went thru the same infertility circles before we were blessed with our twin kids. I even tried IVF in South America but finally was helped by an Indian doctor in Delhi. India has the best of doctors and clinics. After my pregnancy my cousin who is 39 yrs went to the same doctor and conceived (after 18 yrs and with a 9 yr old adopted daughter) boy/girl twins. My kids are 4 yrs and hers are 3 yrs. I don't know anything of astrology but know that people who haven't gone thru infertility cannot understand what and where desperation leads so seeking refuge in astrology is no harm. I also did whatever my in laws, mother told me...fast this day...don't eat that...leave non - veg blah...blah.

Please let m know if you need the details of the doctor in Delhi.

It is easy said then done but you need to have faith and a lot of courage...trust me courage will get the babies you are longing for.

God bless you..................Love.................Jona

Hi Dear, I did not mean to be rude - Actually i was in the same type of situation as yours (not ek nadi), I had been praying night and days and keeping all my trust on God. I got pregnant only after 8 yrs of marriage. I had consulted 2 gynacologists and one of the two would like to grab my money by advicing me to do IVF or Insemination. But when i went to the second one she just send me for check up and without any medication I got pregnant. I wish you the same. If you are located in the area of Scarborough, I know a good gynacologist, Her name is Asha Kurup and she is located on Midlands and Finch, probably you can go and have a check up with her. Do not lose hope and If you trust God, you should have hope on him. Good luck

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Hi Rugrat,

I know what you are going thru. We went thru the same infertility circles before we were blessed with our twin kids. I even tried IVF in South America but finally was helped by an Indian doctor in Delhi. India has the best of doctors and clinics. After my pregnancy my cousin who is 39 yrs went to the same doctor and conceived (after 18 yrs and with a 9 yr old adopted daughter) boy/girl twins. My kids are 4 yrs and hers are 3 yrs. I don't know anything of astrology but know that people who haven't gone thru infertility cannot understand what and where desperation leads so seeking refuge in astrology is no harm. I also did whatever my in laws, mother told me...fast this day...don't eat that...leave non - veg blah...blah.

Please let m know if you need the details of the doctor in Delhi.

It is easy said then done but you need to have faith and a lot of courage...trust me courage will get the babies you are longing for.

God bless you..................Love.................Jona

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Infertility

Infertility primarily refers to the biological inability of a man or a woman to contribute to conception. Infertility may also refer to the state of a woman who is unable to carry a pregnancy to full term. There are many biological causes of infertility, some which may be bypassed with medical intervention.

Women who are fertile experience a natural period of fertility before and during ovulation, and they are naturally infertile during the rest of the menstrual cycle. Fertility awareness methods are used to discern when these changes occur; by tracking changes in cervical mucus or basal body temperature.

Definition

There are strict definitions of infertility used by many doctors. However, there are also similar terms, e.g. subfertility for a more benign condition and fecundity for the natural improbability to conceive.

Infertility
Reproductive endocrinologists, the doctors specializing in infertility, consider a couple to be infertile if:
•the couple has not conceived after 12 months of contraceptive-free intercourse if the female is under the age of 34
•the couple has not conceived after 6 months of contraceptive-free intercourse if the female is over the age of 35 (declining egg quality of females over the age of 35 account for the age-based discrepancy as when to seek medical intervention)
•the female is incapable of carrying a pregnancy to term.

Subfertility
A couple that has tried unsuccessfully to have a child for a year or more is said to be subfertile. The couple's fecundability rate is approximately 3-5%. Many of its causes are the same as those of infertility. Such causes could be endometriosis, or polycystic ovarian syndrome.

Prevalence
Infertility affects approximately 10% of people of reproductive age and 15% of couples. Roughly 40% of cases involve a male contribution or factor, 40% involve a female factor, and the remainder involve both sexes.

Causes
This section deals with unintentional causes of sterility. For more information about surgical techniques for preventing procreation, see sterilization.

Primary vs. secondary

Couples with primary infertility have never been able to conceive,[4] while, on the other hand, secondary infertility is difficulty conceiving after already having conceived and carried a normal pregnancy. Technically, secondary infertility is not present if there has been a change of partners.
Some women are infertile because their ovaries do not mature and release eggs. In this case synthetic FSH by injection or Clomid (Clomiphene citrate) via a pill can be given to stimulate follicles to mature in the ovaries.

Causes in either sex

Factors that can cause male as well as female infertility are:
•Genetic
oA Robertsonian translocation in either partner may cause recurrent spontaneous abortions or complete infertility.
•General factors
oDiabetes mellitus, thyroid disorders, adrenal disease

•Hypothalamic-pituitary factors:
o Kallmann syndrome
o Hyperprolactinemia
o Hypopituitarism

Combined infertility

In some cases, both the man and woman may be infertile or sub-fertile, and the couple's infertility arises from the combination of these conditions. In other cases, the cause is suspected to be immunological or genetic; it may be that each partner is independently fertile but the couple cannot conceive together without assistance.

Unexplained infertility

In about 15% of cases the infertility investigation will show no abnormalities. In these cases abnormalities are likely to be present but not detected by current methods. Possible problems could be that the egg is not released at the optimum time for fertilization that it may not enter the fallopian tube, sperm may not be able to reach the egg, fertilization may fail to occur, transport of the zygote may be disturbed, or implantation fails. It is increasingly recognized that egg quality is of critical importance and women of advanced maternal age have eggs of reduced capacity for normal and successful fertilization.

Treatment

Treatment of infertility usually starts with medication. In vitro fertilization (IVF) in addition to various forms and developments of it (ICSI, ZIFT, GIFT) is another solution. They all include that the fertilization takes place outside the body. On the other hand, an insemination can make a fertilization inside the body. Other techniques are e.g. tuboplasty, assisted hatching and PGD.

Ethics

There are several ethical issues associated with infertility and its treatment.
•High-cost treatments are out of financial reach for some couples.
•Debate over whether health insurance companies should be forced to cover infertility treatment.
•Allocation of medical resources that could be used elsewhere
•The legal status of embryos fertilized in vitro and not transferred in vivo.
•Anti-abortion opposition to the destruction of embryos not transferred in vivo.
•IVF and other fertility treatments have resulted in an increase in multiple births, provoking ethical analysis because of the link between multiple pregnancies, premature birth, and a host of health problems.
•Religious leaders' opinions on fertility treatments.
•Infertility caused by DNA defects on the Y chromosome is passed on from father to son. If natural selection is the primary error correction mechanism that prevents random mutations on the Y chromosome, then fertility treatments for men with abnormal sperm (in particular ICSI) only defer the underlying problem to the next male generation.

Psychological impact
Infertility may have profound psychological effects. Partners may become more anxious to conceive, ironically increasing sexual dysfunction. Marital discord often develops in infertile couples, especially when they are under pressure to make medical decisions. Women trying to conceive often have clinical depression rates similar to women who have heart disease or cancer.Even couples undertaking IVF face considerable stress, especially the female partner

Social impact

In many cultures, inability to conceive bears a stigma. In closed social groups, a degree of rejection (or a sense of being rejected by the couple) may cause considerable anxiety and disappointment. Some respond by actively avoiding the issue altogether; middle-class men are the most likely to respond in this way.

There are legal ramifications as well. Infertility has begun to gain more exposure to legal domains. An estimated 4 million workers in the U.S. used the Family and Medical Leave Act (FMLA) in 2004 to care for a child, parent or spouse, or because of their own personal illness. Many treatments for infertility, including diagnostic tests, surgery and therapy for depression, can qualify one for FMLA leave.



Find a gynecologist based on references on success and stick to the doctor to follow the procedures. I do not have any knowledge on EK Nadi.

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Deeps, Rugrat,

I tried sending you PM's but don't know why the message stayed in my outbox. I have sent you e-mails though.

Thanks.........Jona