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So ,
India loses a professional (because he has been ill-informed)
Canada loses a professional (because it cannot provide a job in same profession)
The professional loses his self-esteem (because he is mopping the floor)
The only one laughing his way all the way to the bank is sanjeevm's old fogie !!!
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2) A lot of people in \"desh\" (whatever that may be) are now aware of the ground realities here. (thanks to CanadianDesi and other resources for this). Why do they still choose to come here?
3) (Drumroll for the million dollar question..........)
If 90% of immigrants are so unhappy with their lives in Canada and Canadian govt. is so evil, why are they all still here? One reason may be they're unwilling to face their relatives back home, but if the issues are bread-and-butter, it would be pretty silly not to go back because of that reason.
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Chandresh
Advice is free – lessons I charge for!!
Encouraged by Sanjeevm's real life incident, let me also narrate a real life story. This would highlight how differences in perception and vision make or mar ones life's dreams. The story does not have a direct relationship with the topic under discussion but one can certainly see the tangential relevance.
Everything in the story is true except the names.
Nearly 4 years ago two Indians-unknown to each other-arrived here in Toronto. Let us call them Ram and Shyam. Ram, Shyam and YoursTruly shared the same apartment. Somehow we found a common wavelength and, in general, had a good time for a while. Both Ram and Shyam were unmarried but had girlfriends in India to whom they intended to marry in the near future.
Ram was an expert in marketing and sales back home and a typical Yuppy. Had a great way with girls and all that goes with it. Shyam was a diploma-holder from Aptech with a couple of years of teaching experience in the same institute. He was a down-to-earth guy with a determined look.
We all three did try to get the jobs matching our skills but were not successful. I am skipping my details because of their irrelevance to the story.
Finally Ram did get a $9 an hour job in a call centre. His initial happiness soon turned to gloom when the harsh realities of the job dawned on him. He was not able to come to terms with the job situation because of his background. In a few months time he was 'laid-off'. This hiring-and-firing process continued. His bank balance continued to take hit after hit and as a result his frustration started to mount. His fiancé was in the field of teaching and Ram was aware of the acute teacher shortage in Canada. He decided to get married and sponsor his wife. That was done after he had completed 18 months in Canada.
When he came back he brought some more money from his parents. Unfortunately this time he could not get anything better than $6.75 an hour job at a store. This could be because he could not provide good references. With such low wages he was hard-pressed to pay the rent not to speak of wasting money on other pursuits. He also started borrowing from his friends. His sister in USA gave him a Visa card to make both ends meet. By the end of second year he was in such a sorry economic and mental state that he was not able to think rationally. He took the decision to go back. And before he did that he, like any frustrated immigrant, maxed his line-of-credit and all credit cards. We saw how two years transformed him from a confident and fun-loving guy to a nervous and dejected person. I have no clue how he is doing in India.
On the other hand Shyam came to Canada with a single-minded mission. He gave himself five years to amass $100,000 (Rs. 33 lakhs) and if by that time things do not turn for the better he’d go back and marry his sweet heart and live happily after.
He could not get a call centre job as his proficiency in English was not to the desired level. He instead landed a $12 an hour job in a factory inspecting the quality of plastic furniture with occasional light lifting work. His Indian education and qualification were worth nothing in this job market. But as I mentioned he was a determined guy and always focused on his objectives. His philosophy was if you want things you enjoy, then you have to do things you do not like.
In his second year of stay he started going to college part-time to complete one-year networking course. After completion he got a job in a call center as a technical support person. Now it is his fourth year and he is now pretty close to meeting his target. He is going to India to get married. He wants his wife to stay here for at least one-year. Then they would take a collective decision about future course of action.
For him both avenues are open.
The clear message for all the immigrants is stay focused but at the same time have an exit plan.
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So, it is a choice they are making. And as I always say - it finally boils down to the choice you, me and we all are making for any reason!
Chandresh
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Why I am not leaving Canada (or Actually I should Put it Why cant leave Canada).
To BL,
I have sponsored my Mother (widow) and Borther. Borther is goingto bein Final year of Bachelors course at UFT this year. At present I cant leave them here Just like that. They will not be able to support themselves short of going on Welfare. and we all know how pathetic life could be on Welfare.
SO I am here at leats till my brother completes his course in mid 2005.
I am also the Elder Indian Son, hence all responsibilites fall on me.
the above is Just a part of the Story. I dont want to go thru it in detail.
I came to USA in 1996 and wanted to be there, couldnt because of Family responsibilities. I left to come to Canada in 2000
SO I am neither here nor there.
Trust me, I am not here by choice.
I hate every moment of it here.
My situation is not unlike Ram (read YourTruly's post above).
in my mind I Just cannot compromise (like many have done) and do some course and work as a technician all my life here.
In USA i was getting close to 80K and working for a very prestigious company. the downslide was dramatic and it took me by surprise. I was absolutely not prepared for it.
SO you must understand that why a lot of people Just dont or cant leave.
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I once made a mistake, but I was wrong about it.
But Merc., aren't those very personal reasons that Canadian Immigration has nothing to do with? On the contrary, Canadian immigration is at least allowing you to sponsor your Mom and your bro, you know the U.S. does not even allow that.
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Trust me, I am not here by choice.
I hate every moment of it here.
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in my mind I just cannot compromise (like many have done) and do some course and work as a technician all my life here.
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Hi desi student,
You are absolutely right !!!!
But young man...you are extremely fortunate that you are 19 and are in Canada as a student. By the time you get a Canadian degree...and have 3 to 4 years of local living or part time work exp (let it be pizza / Tim Hortons) thats all considered good enough experience for a good future job...
And you dont have regrets of doing high level jobs in India or elsewhere...leaving that and coming here....
A University degree from canada will stabilize your life..so be happy....
I had explained in my earliesr posts....SUCCESS in canada.....
1. Skilled workers - Carpenters, Welders, Mechnics, X ray Technicians, Trailer drivers, Crane operators etc coming from India......90% SUCCESS
2. Highly Highly skilled - Rocket Scientists, Ph. D Bio Tech Research, FRCS Doctors, Main Frme level prog. with IBM etc - 90% SUCCESS
3. Normal Graduate : People doing normal clerical jobs in India - if you are happy to work in call centres, small stores and shopping malls - 70% SUCCESS
4. Professional : Engineers, CA, Marketing Analyst....If you are holding good positions in India, getting good salaries having good standard of living and if you are 35+ then SUCCESS rate is 20%
Now its upto you to figure out where you belong......
Self employed and entreprenuers are exempted..
Deep
U win some..loose some..everything is not justified in this world......
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U win some...lose some...everything is not justified in this world.
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