Wife took 2 year kid and went to India (just disapeared)-- Legal rights ?
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I will tell you a way which none above had suggested. I have long experience to say it is correct way.
Dont not ever chase your spouse. You show that you are not concerned and will look for your better future in Canada. Dont tell her to give custody of child, the more you chase after her, the more you ask for custody of child they are going to be more agressive and will have the child in hiding. No attorney. No court threats. No loose talks with other relatives. Just be normal, call sometimes to her and talk normally. Talk normally with your mother in law and father in law. Send some gifts No raking up old disputed matter, say hello- hi and wether , job etc. Dont say her to comeback.
Now let the matter cool down, take no action except make normal phone calls. Dont discuss hot topics. Your spouse and her noble parents should not understand what you are upto and keep them wondering and discussing. Your stern action at this stage will blast the situation. May be cases registered against you and your family.
One day you will see that she will call you and tell that she is coming to Canada with baby.
See in a disputed marriage if you want divorce -you say I want to live with you and the other party would say that he/ she wants divorce. and if you want to live with other spouse you say I want divorce and the other spouse would join you. It works and i have seen it working. This advise comes free of cost.
Location: British Columbia
Posted on: 31-08-10 10:58:32
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Originally posted by nobel
Hi Guys,
We moved to Canada around 2 years back and are married for around 5 years now.
Have a 2 year daughter together.
My wife was suffering from depression from last 2 years and is taking medication.
Psychiatrist told us that main reason of her depression were Unemployment (couldn't get job in her field since we moved here) and Obesity.
Last week my mother in law came from India and told me that she will take of her.
On Sunday my mother in law told me that she is taking my wife and Daughter to friends place on Wednesday and they will stay there overnight and that will give my wife break from me and daily routine, so i agreed.
They were suppose to come back Thursday evening but instead i got a call from my Father in law in India that they all have reached India. He didn't tell me any reason and hung up the phone.
So in short my wife just left with my daughter and went back to India.
I am very disappointed and angry with the whole situation and more so they took away my daughter without my consent.
I have sponsored my daughter immigration last year and she became PR only 6 months back. So i am SPONSOR for my daughter.
What are my legal rights to bring my daughter back to Canada.
Its kind of sad to me, that your last question wasn't "how to get my wife back"..but how to get my daughter back. What kind of marriage did you both have that she had to leave like that??
Give a period of time to everyone to calm down, then call your wife and ask her to talk to you about why she felt she had to leave you in this way. Was it your marriage, you, living in Canada etc that she felt she had to escape.
No blaming. No accusations from your side. Be prepared to be vented at. Push your ego down. Why am I saying this? because you have a CHILD. Both you and your wife should work out your issues (even if you choose NOT to stay together) for the sake of your daughter's future and happiness.Its about her now, not you.
Try to work it out with your wife. Your marriage is so young...it takes time to adjust and sacrifice and smooth out the bumps. You married her for a reason - try to focus on the positives while talking to her. This will give you more patience when talking to her.
If you ultimately decide NOT to stay together thats ok..but your developing an amicable relationship will help your daughter emotionally.
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It might be a totally different story.
You abused your wife from the day she came to Canada. She couldn't take it anymore so called her mother for some support and after gauging the situation mother decided it was not a safe place for her daughter and her grand daughter to be left with you.
Now that you find you have been tricked.. u want to get back to them and hurt them by taking the daughter away from them.
I find it hard to believe that ur wife would take such an action just because she was depressed. She would have worked it out. And so would have her parents. Parents (specially in India) don't like to take daughter away from a happy husband specially if they have kids.
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Posted on: 31-08-10 12:49:09
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Originally posted by dfwrp
It might be a totally different story.
Yes. We all can have theories. Even I have mine.
Canada invited immigrants by lying and not informing the true situation or even acting to stop immigration because we are saturated. Canada invites professional immigrants and people other than in IT find it hard or impossible to find a job. This leads to depression and cracks in the social life. The Govt. of Canada is ultimately responsible for this situation. So the OP should sue the Govt..
Peace
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I am a Gents and not a Ladies.
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Originally posted by tamilkuravan
So the OP should sue the Govt..
Peace
TK -- Tussi great ho ( You are great )
Nice to see your post and lighten the thread ... Wheres the OP btw ??
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Fido.
Come on man, i think it is time for u to enjoy life..
Ur wife is gone and so is ur kid. U have no responsibilities and effectively u are a bachelor..
If u live for 2 years away from each other u can file for uncontested separation in canada.
Cant start digging graves, Anything u try will make things worse for u in terms of time,money, stress.
Move on start a new life.
TK,
I have never seen anyone more frustrated at his situation in canada
I think it is time for u to move back to india..
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Originally posted by tamilkuravan
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Originally posted by dfwrp
It might be a totally different story.
Yes. We all can have theories. Even I have mine.
Canada invited immigrants by lying and not informing the true situation or even acting to stop immigration because we are saturated. Canada invites professional immigrants and people other than in IT find it hard or impossible to find a job. This leads to depression and cracks in the social life. The Govt. of Canada is ultimately responsible for this situation. So the OP should sue the Govt..
Peace
