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Posted on: 14-03-06 16:44:02
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Posted on: 14-03-06 16:44:02
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Originally posted by jake3d
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Originally posted by morning_rain
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I didnt watch the show in question. However this sounds like the guy thinks he can 'buy ' anything or anyone. I also cant believe a woman would allow herself to be degraded like this.
I remember seeing his ad in the newspaper sometime ago.
I dont know if this is any different from guys/gals looking to marry people living in western countries or getting married to a well settled spouse etc. Even having the requirement to get married to a highly educated person (since education is often linked to earning capacity) amounts to the same thing, does it not?.
So how come its degrading in this instance? More direct? Probably.
It was mentioned in the ad that if things did not work out they would part amicabily. So I guess it all worked out for the sugar daddy. As long as it works for the people in question...seems fair to me.
I agree with you to some level.. People marry for various reasons and many times for selfish reasons. I agree that many people who want spouses living in western countries may be looking at the location factor..but if one chooses a highly educated partner..I dont think its quite the same thing. They may be after the better lifestyle aspect..or if one is highly educated themself..they may be looking for someone with shared interests and other similaries (ie/ similar earning power)
I also agree..that if both of them are fine with it..thats fair.
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Originally posted by morning_rain
They may be after the better lifestyle aspect..or if one is highly educated themself..they may be looking for someone with shared interests and other similaries (ie/ similar earning power)
Lifestyle and earning power was definitely on the girls mind
.We all have our price. Her's seem to be really high. Good for her
. Similarly he surely had other options available with all that money. He was obviously looking for someone with qualities beyond the norm...he may have found it.-----------------------------------------------------------------
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Posted on: 14-03-06 23:28:59
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Posted on: 14-03-06 23:28:59
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Originally posted by jake3d
He was obviously looking for someone with qualities beyond the norm...he may have found it.
Yess.... but the question i have is: why did he have trouble getting adate?
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Originally posted by morning_rain
Yess.... but the question i have is: why did he have trouble getting adate?
Try to date him and you might find out..........
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Posted on: 15-03-06 02:51:41
Location: Ottawa (Now in Bangalore)
Posted on: 15-03-06 02:51:41
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Originally posted by morning_rain
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Originally posted by lana2005
Did anybody watch Montel Williams talk show yesterday?
The topic of discussion was dating. One of the guys introduced by Montel Williams was a guy called Gautam.
Montel said Gautam is a very very successful person living in California probably LA. He could not find a date. So he created a website saying he was willing to be a sugar daddy. Many women replied. He chose one woman named Christy. He paid $10 to 12 K allowance for her every month. He took her with him on his business trips. She would spend anywhere between 15 to 20 k on shopping (excluding monthly allowance) He has taken her to Europe, Asia nad many other places. After dating for few months, they decided to date exclusively and yesterday he proposed her on Montel show.
I didnt watch the show in question. However this sounds like the guy thinks he can 'buy ' anything or anyone. I also cant believe a woman would allow herself to be degraded like this.
i think this just shows people think money can buy anything. Unfortunately It cant buy them true love. Both of these two are just after their own interests.What happens if/when the money runs out?
on a final note.. a young..single very rich guy..and he cant get a date?? Whats wrong with him that he had to buy a love life???
harsh.. but true??
Ever Heard of Dharva Conger and Rick Rockwell (more than 6 years ago...
"Who wants to marry a multi-millionaire"
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Originally posted by morning_rain
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Originally posted by jake3d
He was obviously looking for someone with qualities beyond the norm...he may have found it.
Yess.... but the question i have is: why did he have trouble getting adate?
The guy is loaded. Chances are that hes been living a lifestyle with certain idiosyncracies/kinkiness/fetishes(or whatever you call it). He's probably found that an average woman is not likely to indulge in the same.
He was looking for someone who could fit his lifestyle, like all of us do(when we look for spouses). Different lifestyle=different needs. Maybe down the line he will find out that he has different needs, just as the girl may find out. Maybe they will learn to love each other( like people in arranged marriages do), if they are not already in love. Right now their needs match. Its probably a good thing he did not drag an average woman into his lifestyle and mess her life up. Maybe, maybe....
Ofcourse, our middle class morality makes us indulge in passing judgement. Nothing good or bad about that either.
Just a bit of psychobabble while the server is down again
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Posted on: 15-03-06 11:45:15
Location: British Columbia
Posted on: 15-03-06 11:45:15
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Originally posted by chandresh
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Originally posted by morning_rain
Yess.... but the question i have is: why did he have trouble getting adate?
Try to date him and you might find out..........
What ? Leave my husband for a single ultra rich californian desi?
No way :P
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