My post landing experience


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My post landing experience of Canada
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Friends,
This is my first message on my post landing experience in Toronto last month. The last 4 weeks have been full of surprises and I’d like to share some of my 2 cents from a different perspective.

The first big surprise was at the first immigration counter when the immigration officer said to me “Welcome to Canada, your new home..eh”. I cannot describe the feeling, every country that I have been to in the past I was asked at the immigration “When do you plan to leave?” The next immigration officer turned out to be a lady of indian origin, she took my picture for PR and did not even bother to check my landing funds, even when I insisted on showing ( I spent $10 in getting the drafts made and no one even looked at it )Then I was given a welcome package with vital info for new immigrants. This booklet holds info on the wealth of resources in local areas in Canada. Every resource listed in this booklet should be explored, to my surprise I found many new immigrants giving up too soon on the resources mentioned. The whole process from stepping out of aircraft to clearing customs took not more than 40 minutes.
Outside the airport I was greeted by one of the coldest days of the season with -31C and winds. I was happy I landed on the coldest day because every other days seemed like spring even it was -5 outside.

The next day after applying for my SIN card I attended a seminar in a nearby new comer information center (NIC). There were about 20-25 other new immigrants at this seminar and it gave a wealth of info for a new comer ranging from local info on GTA to how to prepare and look for jobs. These NIC’s also have one on one counselors to help every new comer target the jobs in his own field. Like NICs, there are many such centers and organizations all across canada and what surprised me that how much the Govt is doing to help the new immigrants settle in and get into the mainstream. In the 4 other countries where I have lived and worked before no such help was available, I had to struggle and find out things by myself.
We formed a group of 8-10 new immigrants when we met at NIC and it proved to be a great support structure, to be able to share your experiences and views with people in similar situations is a great help in itself. I took every opportunity to talk to every desi or immigrant I came across at bus stops at trains etc, getting different perspectives was a great learning experience in itself.

I’d like to differ with those who present a very negative image and say that only labor jobs are given to desis. I found a few major trends in immigrants which I feel is also contributing to the miseries of new immigrants. I may be wrong but the general trends which I was was quite disturbing
1. Many desis try to land a job as soon as possible within the first 2 weeks. $1=Rs30 factor and also the fear of spending from the settlement funds drives this trend but I’d suggest if one has to do labor jobs, do it after 3-4 months when one has tried every other avenue to get a break in their own field. Also many come with families and kids which will make things even worse in the beginning. Unless one is very well funded bringing families should be a big NO NO.
2. Many desis try to in the comfort zone of GTA. GTA is an industrial area Esp mississauga and west and most employment agencies there will give only labor and factory jobs, even if you hold an MBBS. I met very well qualified people doing labor jobs and were feeling happy that they are earning more than what they did in india. I was stupefied by one guy(B.E, MBA) who said he is doing day and night shifts at a factory just to accumulate 900 hours so that he can get unemployment insurance from the govt.
I don’t blame the govt. of canada for his miseries, if that is what his goals are then that is what he will get. Many of us don’t aim high enough.
We all have to struggle. the choice of where to struggle is ours. Whether to struggle really hard to re-qualify( if needed) and get into our own field or to keep struggling in menial jobs. The choice is really ours.

3. Not many desis make use of the Co-op and other employment programs offered by the govt. The down side of these programs is that one does not get paid for 5-6 months while one gets to work in firms in ones own field. 85% of those who participate in these programs get gainfully employed. Also,not many desis join french courses. I am not sure of the details, but I am told Govt of Quebec gives $500 a month to everyone who enrolls for a french learning class. A family of 4 grown ups could make $2000 a month for just attending french classes everyday for 4 hrs a day!! And one could then do other jobs as well to support. What do we gain by learning french? A whole new world of govt jobs will open to us besides the money and knowledge of another language. Think about it. It will take time but all good things take time.

4. Lastly and most importantly all new desis must work on communication and presentation before coming. That is the key for everything in Canada. I met a senior college prof from India with a PhD, he was complaining about lack of jobs. There are indians in senior positions in Canadian universities with less qualifications than him but what was the difference. The difference I felt was that this person despite his qualification could not even pronounce his name right “Sassi Kumar” for Shashi Kumar in a bihari/UP accent. No offence to Bihari’s please, I am a bihari too. To top it off he had strong sented “chameli ka tel” and drooping 70’s moustache … I wonder how could he clear any interview.

There are plenty of opportunities in Canada. To get to those we have to work hard to get local licencures and qualifications and canadianize ourselves with a positive outlook. And jobs and opportunities will follow in with time. Otherwise we will just working hard on menial jobs with no hopes for future.
There are very few places in the world which offer so many opportunities to new immigrants to settle down, we need find out about them to make full use of it to succeed.

Gook luck to all.



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AnilKG   
Member since: Jan 04
Posts: 197
Location: SEA-TOR-OTT-HOU-OKC

Post ID: #PID Posted on: 11-02-04 21:33:11

Jake,

I agree with your comments about education. I also prefer NA style (broader view, inter-subject relationship) education over Indian style (cramming, narrowly focused subject silos).

IMO, NA style education in early stage of child development encouarges thinking across the board, outside the box and in general leadership qualities whereas Indian style develops bookish knowledge, narrow view and in general worker bees qualities. Both education systems develop two very different perspective on life.

Majority of successful NA Indians were successful in assimilating both systems to their advantage. I also feel lot of first generation Indian immigrants are responsible for creating ABCD dilemma by trying to force entirely different value system than what kids saw outside the home. I know few very successful first generation Indian and they lament about how their grown up kids pursuing writing, literature, and public policy instead of engineering and medical fields.

When I was studying in US, we used to joke that Indian education system digs deeper but narrow holes where as american system digs wider but shallow holes. In the end, I feel I matured lot more in 4 yrs of unprotected life and education in US than 18 years of sheltered life and education in India.

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Orginally posted by jake3d

A note about education. I really prefer the well rounded education that kids get here compared to the focus on pure academics in India. I read an article that the school I studied in in India till the 10th standard, now wants children in the first standard to write essays. The principal of the school is the same lady who, when I was in the 6/7th standard slapped me numb because I was actually sketching the story(history class) that she was teaching that day. I was sent packing to the principals office where the priest ...slapped me some more. My father was called to school the next day. My flipbooks(animations) which I had made in my rough books were shown along with my other drawings to demonstrate how bad I was. I was completely humuliated because I was so fond of art and animation even then. Needless to say I never drew in school again.
However, art was always my calling as my life has proved. I have made quite a good living out of it too. Only I wish my teachers had nurtured it more instead of making me feel like a criminal.

My daughter is quite artistic, infact you can see her drawings in my short film @ jacobv.com. She is really encouraged to follow it in her public school. I would NEVER want her educated in India due to my experiences.



BlueLobster   
Member since: Oct 02
Posts: 3409
Location: Mississauga

Post ID: #PID Posted on: 11-02-04 23:04:53

I was a pretty average student in India myself, where I studied till the 12th standard. I don't think I was stupid, I just hated cramming and could never bring myself to it, no matter what the consequence.

I remember the 12th standard quite distinctly. Hardly any students ever came to school because everyone was busy running from one private tuition to another. We were repeatedly told to "cram, cram, cram". It didn't matter if it was mathematics or biology, cramming was the answer to all problems. All kind of really expensive "guides" (guide books) were avaible as well, each asssiting in futher cramming. I had friends who would "study" 16 hours a day (one of those guys stood first in Gujarat), where "study" was defined as remembering each answer word for word to every question possible. We had a girl in our apartment building who would read out ALOUD answers to questions everyday till midnight (YES, even math and English). She got about 85% or so. And take my word for it, I knew her personally, she didn't even deserve a C based on pure intellect.

I was fond of literature right from the start. I used to read my English textbook even before the school year began, because i was loved the o'henry or tolstoy short stories and the browning poems. I was better at English in every way than anybody I knew in class (and this was in Gujarat, so the difference was pretty sizeable). Yet in the 12th exam, I scored a measly 65 out of 100, whereas another guy who I knew sucked at English scored 90. Figure this, HE was embarassed when I told him my mark. I asked him how he did it and he told me he wrote word for word answers from a popular "Guide". And here I was, wasting my time constructing well thought of and highly imaginative answers to the questions. My resentment was beyond words.

I can't speak for other states, but the education system in Gujarat is really sick. We churn out parrots everyday.

And what about P.E.? Absolutely no encouragement to pursue ANY sport of any kind. It is because of our wonderful education system that despite being a country of a billion people, we have a tough time winning ONE gold medal at the olympics. What a shame!

I was lucky enough to go to university overseas. Develped a liking for computers and scored As in all my comp. scie. courses. My relatives in India used to tell me this was because "Education overseas is very easy". I didn't bother explaining to them that I scored good grades because my interst in computers was cultivated and I wasn't graded on stupid questions like "What year was the floppy drive invented? What was the exact home address of the scientist who invented it?".

Phew! I'd like to smash with a hammer this notion that our Indian school education is somehow far superior than the western one, just because some kid in grade 5 in India knows his multiplication tables better than a 5th grader overseas.


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Chris   
Member since: Feb 04
Posts: 148
Location: SoMeWheRe iN aSia

Post ID: #PID Posted on: 11-02-04 23:14:37

sorry to intrude in the discussion. i thought however you may find my experience useful. i am a canadian from london, ontario, who stumbled upon your website due to interest sparked by two indian friends of mine.

i feel obliged to comment on the impressions of so many indians who have moved to canada and have found nothing but hardship. the word on all your minds is "unfairness" perhaps; although many of you are qualified to work in other fields with relevant degrees (even MBAs, engineering degrees, etc) you find yourselves working as menial laborers in canada.

i can tell you that your intuitions are correct: the purpose of canada is not to get donald trump like riches and move to malibu (there is no equivalent in canada even!), but to buy a small home and cut your grass every day.

speaking as a native born wasp canadian, i can tell you that canada is not dynamic. canadians are not dynamic like our friends to the south. what canada offers is security, socially and financially.

education is free, healthcare is free, though mediocre. again, this is because we are not dynamic; we are mediocre. there are no Harvards, but there are no Bronxes, no LA riots, no racial tension.

i left canada in 1995 never to return because there were no jobs in my field. i received my MA in 1990 and could never find a suitable job in canada. so i did what i had to: i went abroad and started a new life in asia! in indonesia.

it took quite a while to learn the language in indonesia, find a good job, adapt to the culture, the weather! (36 degrees... every day! and the rainy season!)

but in the end, after almost a decade, i have a good life here; a family, a house, two cars, insurance, etc.

my point is, many of you seem to be disappointed or crestfallen, but this is the experience of all newcomers to a new country. when did i not despair?

but you will succeed. by coming to canada, by making the trip and risking it all, you have shown that you have the mettle to do what it takes to get what you want.

don't give up because in life there is no giving up, only struggle.

i wish you well, my fellow canadians.

chris

:)



kjyoti26   
Member since: Feb 04
Posts: 238
Location: Canada

Post ID: #PID Posted on: 12-02-04 01:28:27

Hi,

Bluelobster & Chris your views are really very appreciated. Well done!


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biomed   
Member since: Jul 03
Posts: 700
Location: Mississauga, Ontario

Post ID: #PID Posted on: 12-02-04 09:10:11

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Orginally posted by Chris

my point is, many of you seem to be disappointed or crestfallen, but this is the experience of all newcomers to a new country. when did i not despair?

but you will succeed. by coming to canada, by making the trip and risking it all, you have shown that you have the mettle to do what it takes to get what you want.

don't give up because in life there is no giving up, only struggle.

i wish you well, my fellow canadians.

chris

:)



Chris, I am bit confused here. You are praising this country like anything but you left such a great country and never returned. Are you trying to say that you were not having all those (above said) qualities. You already mentioned why you given up, do you think this country has changed since you left? If yes, could you give us(if you don't mind) the reason why you don't want to come back and at the same time you are expecting from the new immigrants to remain here, not give up hopes.

Am I missing something here?

Thanks and regards.
Biomed


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Maharaj   
Member since: Oct 02
Posts: 1721
Location: Brampton

Post ID: #PID Posted on: 12-02-04 10:56:12

When I read first few posts in this Thread, I thought this to be same old story of +ve & -ve fight. But this Thread is now 6 pages long, and still going strong.

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Orginally posted by BlueLobster
I can't speak for other states, but the education system in Gujarat is really sick. We churn out parrots everyday.



Very true, PARROTs. I always used to wonder "If they are Good ... then How come Topper in 10th grade is not even among Top 10 in 12th grade". I don’t have any direct experience of Canadian Schools, I can’t comment on that. But at the same time, my School (Hansraj Morarji) back home is one of the best. Anybody who has seen it would definitely agree that the facilities which they provide are fantastic. Arts, Music, Sports … you name it they have it. But Hansraj never had any Topper in 10th.

Mr. India, you haven’t got a clue yet? It’s an American policy. One (Chandresh) acts as basher, others (like us) are defenders. Yeh ander ki baat hai, match fixed hai :) :) :cheers:

Its good to talk +ve & -ve thinking, but aren’t we over doing it?


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Mishtar India   
Member since: Nov 03
Posts: 668
Location: Toronto

Post ID: #PID Posted on: 12-02-04 11:05:23

Chris, Welcome to the discussion. Your inputs add a greater dimension to this hot topic.
I completely agree with you. The fact that asians come to canada proves their mettle to strive for something better and they should not give it up easily by returning back.

The fact the you moved to indonesia speaks volumes too.There is no general rule to govern any profession over which place is better. Every case is different.

I remain very upbeat about Canada, while no one should expect to become a Donald Trump here but every successful professional can expect lead to a lifestyle which only a privileged few can afford in India and ofcourse enjoy much safer social, political and environmental conditions.

As for the educational system, however bad we may call the western/canadian system we must not forget that is is the same system which has for ages been producing pioneers in every feild. Univ of Toronto alone has produced more Noble prize winners that all universities in india taken together. And those pioneers got local canadian schooling not indian. If some passouts cannot do 2+2 blame them not the system.
One can find similar duffers who are passouts from indian schools as well.
The passout of the same Canadian education system who could develop a sociecty and its systems as good as it is. It may have many flaws but it is better than many indian systems, isint it?


I am proud of the education I got in india but the stresses it puts on the student and their families is brutal. It is like a race horse with blinders on.

It would be interesting to know how well Chris could you adapt to indonesian systems after living in the west all your life.

Jake, you are right what makes this discussion more interesting is the strong conflicting views from Biomed, Chandresh and others. Looking forward to their rebuttals as well. I'd like to get convinced by their way of thinking, provided they provide a strong and convincing argument.


comeon guys, we are listening ...




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