Desi attitude in Brampton sucks!


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420420   
Member since: Mar 07
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Location: brampton

Post ID: #PID Posted on: 09-11-10 18:32:29

sorry i could not shut up my self.

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How many would be still staying here IF;

if $$$ value turns like Rs. 2-10 ?

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Brain - he has less than me.

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we are him..............selfish......... but always try to be different from each other.



Maharaj   
Member since: Oct 02
Posts: 1721
Location: Brampton

Post ID: #PID Posted on: 10-11-10 10:34:43

Quote:
Originally posted by morning_rain
Kids running around movie theatres can be a) annoying for other patrons b) a safety hazard for themselves or other people. If kids cannot handle being in a restaurant, then why take them there? if I spent $50 to have a nice evening out with my spouse for a nice dinner, or hired a babysitter then why do I want to be subject to screaming children? (hypothetically speaking).

Lastly - I meant that in certain places (high end restaurants?) etiquette requires good table manners. I was pointing out children learn that at home.


I agree to your points. Luckily my kids behave n don't go bananas. I enjoy n at times go nuts with kids but yes, I can't stand screams as well. What I tried to point out that Kids also have this mood-swings ... its not only limited to women (Poor Men!). Parenting is tough n it's just that kid decided to scream at that point of time. Too bad, if some don't like it - life goes on. The fact remains no mater which place you go - I don't read disclaimers that "kids r supposed to behave and not allowed to run/scream" and Before picking restaurants, next time, check with them if Kids can be kids or not.

Table Etiquettes, may be at Queen's Palace or Uncle Sam's White House. But again, high end restaurants .... naaaaah - who decides high end??? I am paying them for their service and food. Take it n leave table manners to me :) All I teach my kids is finish the food that you have in your plate - that's it.







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web2000   
Member since: May 06
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Post ID: #PID Posted on: 10-11-10 10:56:24

Why we are so ashamed of our culture and practice?

Some questions to be answered?

1. Which is good to use in the toilet - Water or Paper?
2. Eating with hands or forks? Only south Indians can tell how tasty it is to eat with fingers. I myself love it but can I do this practice in the restaurant?

http://foodsofindia.blogspot.com/2006/02/practice-of-indians-eating-with-their.html

3. Why do we hesitate to speak in our mother tongue?

4. Why should I say thank you/sorry millions times in a day.

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Just always be happy and proud on your culture and heritage.






meghal   
Member since: Jul 04
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Post ID: #PID Posted on: 10-11-10 11:14:17

Quote:
Originally posted by web2000

2. Eating with hands or forks? Only south Indians can tell how tasty it is to eat with fingers. I myself love it but can I do this practice in the restaurant?



IMO, this would depend upon where you are eating - go with the flow. Eating burger or sandwiches can be pretty messy. But I do get irritated by people making slurping or chewing sound.

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3. Why do we hesitate to speak in our mother tongue?



This is typical with Gujaratis, whether it is India or abroad, Gujaratis will switch to English or Hindi. I do not know why Gujaratis are ashamed of their own language


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4. Why should I say thank you/sorry millions times in a day.



It is a common courtesy in Canada. I have seen people getting offended if I do not reciprocate them with sorry/thank you. This is a part of so called "Canadian experience".

Noisy kids in desi restaurant is an annoying factor me. However, I think it comes with the territory and I cannot do anything. I wish desi parents were more careful about restaurant etiquettes, even if it was a desi restaurant.

I have the worst experience when it comes to dealing with salesman at Futureshop/Best Buy. Those guys have no technical information and just repeat the stuff posted on web. I am there to buy stuff and it is your duty to overwhelm me and force me to buy the stuff I do not want. One of my Caucasian friend also had a bad experience and as per him, those guys are now salaried and hence no impetus to push the sale. They get bonus only if they sell extended warranty. However, I still think desi salesman in big box stores have bias against desis, even though we have same/better purchasing power/credit than other Canadians.

One factor that perhaps has other Candians running for cover when they encounter desi is the smell coming out of jacket during winter months. Even the elevator smells of onion/garlic/ginger long time after they have exited. Same with corridors in apartment/condominium where a desi family lives. The best thing I have found to avoid a smelly jacket is to completely close the closet and open door/windows/exhaust while cooking smelly food.



Maharaj   
Member since: Oct 02
Posts: 1721
Location: Brampton

Post ID: #PID Posted on: 10-11-10 11:40:40

Quote:
Originally posted by meghal

I have the worst experience when it comes to dealing with salesman at Futureshop/Best Buy.

One factor that perhaps has other Candians running for cover when they encounter desi is the smell coming out of jacket during winter months.



now we are talking :)

Quote:
Originally posted by meghal
Noisy kids in desi restaurant is an annoying factor me...


In desi restaurants its not just kids ... everyone is talking loudly.





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dimple2001   
Member since: Apr 04
Posts: 2873
Location: Western Hemisphere

Post ID: #PID Posted on: 10-11-10 11:51:13

Quote:
Originally posted by Loser


THat is why Gora cashiers irritate me by asking silly questions like "did u find everything u were looking for" " is that all for today".



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dimple2001   
Member since: Apr 04
Posts: 2873
Location: Western Hemisphere

Post ID: #PID Posted on: 10-11-10 11:53:58

Quote:
Originally posted by morning_rain

How to use a knife and fork and have impeccable table manners? It is the parents responsibility.




Hey, wait a minute...whatever happened to the good old slurping up the palm to lick the chutney clean?

We left the knife and fork to the daycare and trained our son on the "mission impossible" - tearing roti with one hand :D


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