My Success Story - Albeit Of A Different Kind


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My Success Story - Albeit Of A Different Kind
By: I2Landed

I have now decided to share my whole experience with Canadian Immigration, from the initial unsuccessful attempt till the reapplication and landing in Toronto almost 10 years in a blog. Accordingly I have started writing in a blog, the first posting being about my initial application until the denial by Canadian Consulate General, Hong Kong due to misinterpretation of a simple sentence in a supporting document by the visa officer. In second one, I have written more about my life in general, especially about the 7 year struggle starting with the second application until the grant of visa by New Delhi Consulate and my landing thereafter. I had encountered almost every conceivable problems with the application process along the way, and I hope the way I dealt with them will provide some guidance to those who need it in future.

These, and my future postings, can be viewed in my new website http://www.raju-thomas.com" rel="nofollow">LINK, which is still far from being complete. Incidentally, this website is more special to me since it is being developed and maintained by my young son, who immigrated with me to Toronto initially, and has now trying to establish himself as an independent web developer and content manager in Vancouver, BC.

This is my first attempt at publishing anything, not counting a joke which was published in Readers' Digest when I was 18. Hence, I would greatly appreciate your comments and suggestions about my posts in general, and my writing in particular.

Best wishes to all.


- Raju



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san-hugo   
Member since: Aug 10
Posts: 2009
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Post ID: #PID Posted on: 02-03-12 11:34:16

Quote:
Originally posted by Petal

Hi,

Just read your post "Have Canadians Won Any Prize For Being The Friendliest People On Earth Yet" at your blog. Are Canadians really that freindly towards us Indians? Hard to believe, seeing how foreigners behave towards Indians in other parts of the world! What opinion do Desis who have first hand experience about this have? I am curious to know as a future immigrant.



Canadian who ? I am an Indian and Canadian and I am friendly with everybody.

Rather I see most Indians (and few other clans like chinese, muslims from third world) made with some rigid mould and not changing lose habits, cultural inhibitions, open mind thought process and also not changing a bit of accent to make oneself more readable.


who wants to approach a desi eating yellow curry in public place with his mouth open??? not me !! habit people !

I have also come across smart desis doing very well as they understood the rules of the game early ( I call them good actors to start with, and then eventually they become more canadians than desis but still friendly ).

if canadian here means natives and canucks...how many desis initiate a talk and try to break the ice with them ? ? we tend to look for people from our own community all the time. I am yet to come across an unfriendly canadian who did not talk to me because I am brown.

Sorry, we have wrong notions with in ourselves that is needed to be corrected first.



JRF   
Member since: Jul 04
Posts: 1853
Location: GTA, Ontario

Post ID: #PID Posted on: 02-03-12 15:31:55



Quote:
Originally posted by san-hugo

Rather I see most Indians (and few other clans like chinese, muslims from third world) made with some rigid mould and not changing lose habits, cultural inhibitions, open mind thought process and also not changing a bit of accent to make oneself more readable.


who wants to approach a desi eating yellow curry in public place with his mouth open??? not me !! habit people !





Would you care to elaborate your perception on Point #1.

On point #2, its funny. I'm thinking how should I eat a burger next time, I will look around to see how some one eats with a closed mouth...



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san-hugo   
Member since: Aug 10
Posts: 2009
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Post ID: #PID Posted on: 02-03-12 16:12:34

Quote:
Originally posted by JRF



Quote:
Originally posted by san-hugo

Rather I see most Indians (and few other clans like chinese, muslims from third world) made with some rigid mould and not changing lose habits, cultural inhibitions, open mind thought process and also not changing a bit of accent to make oneself more readable.


who wants to approach a desi eating yellow curry in public place with his mouth open??? not me !! habit people !





Would you care to elaborate your perception on Point #1.

On point #2, its funny. I'm thinking how should I eat a burger next time, I will look around to see how some one eats with a closed mouth...





My elaboration is that it is not perception what I wrote, it is reality. People immigrate but do not change..
When in Rome, Do as Romans do, if you cannot, then do not blame poor Romans that they are not friendly enough!

Point #2 its funny for sure, you open your mouth once to put the stuff in it, then close it and chew it, gulp it. Have'nt you seen people chewing with open mouth?
If you are yet to come across the term .. a link for you

http://www.google.ca/#hl=en&output=search&sclient=psy-ab&q=eating+with+open+mouth&pbx=1&oq=eating+with+open+mouth&aq=f&aqi=g1&aql=&gs_sm=3&gs_upl=1041l4220l0l4757l22l12l0l10l10l1l595l1851l2.9.5-1l22l0&gs_l=hp.3..0.1041l4220l0l4757l22l12l0l10l10l1l595l1851l2j9j5-1l22l0&fp=1&biw=1378&bih=837&bav=on.2,or.r_gc.r_pw.r_cp.r_qf.,cf.osb&cad=b" target="_blank"> Computer Ji Google for me - Eating with open mouth please








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