Love/Arranged Marriage?


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twiceblessed   
Member since: Oct 07
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Post ID: #PID Posted on: 08-10-07 16:26:56

Hi,
I'm from India and recently a Bangladeshi guy proposed marriage to me, and I said yes. My parents don't know about it yet, I plan on telling them in a few weeks. But how do I tell them? Where do I start? :confused:



investpro   
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Post ID: #PID Posted on: 08-10-07 16:58:28

Why not have the best of both worlds and to steal a line from HAHK, why not ask your folks to ARRANGE your LOVE marriage.

Lucky you! Keep up the flame.



coolcola   
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Post ID: #PID Posted on: 08-10-07 21:46:50

Quote:
Originally posted by twiceblessed

Hi,
I'm from India and recently a Bangladeshi guy proposed marriage to me, and I said yes. My parents don't know about it yet, I plan on telling them in a few weeks. But how do I tell them? Where do I start? :confused:




How do you think your parents would react to the news? Ideally breaking the news in person is advisable, but email usually is good to give a heads up to soften the impact.

:cool:



morning_rain   
Member since: Feb 05
Posts: 1920
Location: British Columbia

Post ID: #PID Posted on: 08-10-07 23:14:05

Have your parents met this man? if so - do they like him. If not -can you have him over for dinner..introduce him to your family and let him get ot know yours.

Are your parents fine with the idea of you choosing your own husband?


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jayaram   
Member since: Jun 04
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Location: Calgary

Post ID: #PID Posted on: 09-10-07 16:12:39

Whether love or arranged, always check out the family history (I mean what others say about them). Are they able to accept the girl in their family? Most of the boys are mama's boys (the boy will listen to you or their mama?)



Pink Panther   
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Post ID: #PID Posted on: 10-10-07 11:17:50

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Originally posted by jayaram

Most of the boys are mama's boys (the boy will listen to you or their mama?)



That's quite a generalization! I'm sure there are some men out there who would disagree :)


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Maharaj   
Member since: Oct 02
Posts: 1721
Location: Brampton

Post ID: #PID Posted on: 10-10-07 11:31:59

Quote:
Originally posted by Pink PantherThat's quite a generalization! I'm sure there are some men out there who would disagree :)

Over time Men have figured that keeping Shut is the BEST. :cheers:

But I am sure all "Mama" would have said opposite :)

While Men lives in his own World :D


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