Fido   
Member since: Aug 06
Posts: 5286
Location: Canada

Post ID: #PID Posted on: 24-04-15 11:08:03

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Originally posted by Tourist

Completed 13 years in Canada
• Completed 13 years in Canada, we (husband & wife and four small daughters) landed in April, 2001
• Came with $30,000, with the foremost thought that Canada will give a better life to my daughters
• Leading quite an extravagant life. Partying regularly, Eating out, Drinking, Watching Canuck and Whitecaps game live, Watching movies regularly $11 per movie in Cineplex, Hiking, Camping, Swim lessons, Whistler trips, Regular Holidays, Avid Badminton player. Not being a miser at all.
• Buying designer clothes and footwear for my girls. They hate shopping at Walmart, not being a miser at all.
• Became a citizen of Canada
• Did not acquire any silver hair or baldness.
• No eye glasses or any illness (touch wood)
• Bought a huge lot in Surrey, BC at throwaway price during the depreciating times of 2009. Then designed and built a house on this lot with help from wife and daughters. The house now worth more than $1.5m at current BC prices
• Have two new cars and one old car
• Kind of achieved what we needed for our four daughters. Number 1 – Completing her PhD in Genetics at UBC. Number 2 is a Lawyer. Number 3 doing Medicine. Number 4 is in Grade 11 planning to become an Architect.
• Still believe there is no place on this earth which would have given the top most professional education as to what my daughters gained here in Canada
• Travelling every year to all the exotic places of the world
• But overall still finding something is amiss. Still feel like Tourist in this country. That is why the screen name is Tourist.



Excellent post .. Thanks for sharing ...

I am sure most would have been enamored by the $1.5 million property and some with the lavish life style.

But for me the most catching point of achievement is the excellent settlement & education of your daughters ....... Congratulations for getting them in the best of professions... Can you share some guidance at a high level how did you achieve this ... I mean being in Canada there are so many distractions and the Higher Education proportions are not that great..

What were the key points that you focused on while parenting and for your kids to be such great courses.


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JRF   
Member since: Jul 04
Posts: 1853
Location: GTA, Ontario

Post ID: #PID Posted on: 24-04-15 21:03:48

Congratulations.
Biggest achievements are your assistance to help your daughters launch their careers and have lived satisfying life and more than all you got all the memories built up.

BTW, 30K in 2001 is really something big then. It would have added a great help in buying the first property, establish mobility, education and more than all the backup it gave.

Quote:
Originally posted by Tourist

Completed 13 years in Canada
• Completed 13 years in Canada, we (husband & wife and four small daughters) landed in April, 2001
• Came with $30,000, with the foremost thought that Canada will give a better life to my daughters
• Leading quite an extravagant life. Partying regularly, Eating out, Drinking, Watching Canuck and Whitecaps game live, Watching movies regularly $11 per movie in Cineplex, Hiking, Camping, Swim lessons, Whistler trips, Regular Holidays, Avid Badminton player. Not being a miser at all.
• Buying designer clothes and footwear for my girls. They hate shopping at Walmart, not being a miser at all.
• Became a citizen of Canada
• Did not acquire any silver hair or baldness.
• No eye glasses or any illness (touch wood)
• Bought a huge lot in Surrey, BC at throwaway price during the depreciating times of 2009. Then designed and built a house on this lot with help from wife and daughters. The house now worth more than $1.5m at current BC prices
• Have two new cars and one old car
• Kind of achieved what we needed for our four daughters. Number 1 – Completing her PhD in Genetics at UBC. Number 2 is a Lawyer. Number 3 doing Medicine. Number 4 is in Grade 11 planning to become an Architect.
• Still believe there is no place on this earth which would have given the top most professional education as to what my daughters gained here in Canada
• Travelling every year to all the exotic places of the world
• But overall still finding something is amiss. Still feel like Tourist in this country. That is why the screen name is Tourist.


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dhaikin   
Member since: Jul 13
Posts: 301
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Post ID: #PID Posted on: 25-04-15 00:08:19

30000$ in 2001 & the amount of dedication, hard work you did in Canada. The same effort in India would have put you a lot ahead of where you are now



mmab50   
Member since: Dec 12
Posts: 30
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Post ID: #PID Posted on: 25-04-15 03:14:41

I like the comments made by Fido. Thanks



mmab50   
Member since: Dec 12
Posts: 30
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Post ID: #PID Posted on: 25-04-15 03:14:41

I like the comments made by Fido. Thanks



Tourist   
Member since: Oct 04
Posts: 188
Location: Beautiful BritishColumbia

Post ID: #PID Posted on: 25-04-15 03:20:32

Thank you to all. Sorry to reply later as BC time is different.

If I start on all the parental guidance and the key points which played part in daughters education, I will have to write a complete book. All has not been rosy there are ups and downs and that is what makes life so interesting. I can only mention a few key factors :
- I think the number one factor has to be the land of opportunities: CANADA. We came in at the right time to the right country. If the kids are bright and intelligent the opportunities are galore. My number 3 did not have to pay much for her education, there were numerous grants awarded to her as having top results in high school and undergraduate studies. The other two had to take out the BC student loan but this was very easy to obtain. Returning this loan is now so easy as both of them are now professionals. For Phd studies you get a stipend, which is quite ok.
- My wife, she is a strict disciplinarian and detail oriented. Started very early with the babies. One example: showing them how to hold a pencil correctly. Half the population here in Canada do not hold the pen the way it should be held. The younger generation are even worse so much used to texting. Cannot write properly.
- The Desi Evening Chai Time, one of the most important time in our houshold where each person has to narrate how the day went by and how to tackle the next day. Major decisions are made during this Chai Time. My philosophy: All family have to be present at this evening chai time. You drink Tea and you keep on communicating and communicating.
These are just some key points but there are many more. By the way in 2001 we emigrated from UK and not India and in UK the $30,000 which was 15,000 sterling pounds at that time was plain peanuts.
Hope this helps.


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Gurram   
Member since: Jan 08
Posts: 1002
Location: Toronto

Post ID: #PID Posted on: 25-04-15 06:26:11

Quote:
Originally posted by Tourist


- My wife, she is a strict disciplinarian and detail oriented. Started very early with the babies. One example: showing them how to hold a pencil correctly. Half the population here in Canada do not hold the pen the way it should be held. The younger generation are even worse so much used to texting. Cannot write properly.
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It is really a great achievement .. particularly at an age where all their academic work is required to be done through browsing, typing, printing and texting and kids normally question why we need to learn writing techs when we know how to type and we rarely write.




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