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ljlijash   
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Post ID: #PID Posted on: 18-05-10 23:40:25

An yes , currently my glass is "full empty" !!!!:cheers: :p :p



r_sorout2004   
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Post ID: #PID Posted on: 19-05-10 01:22:33

hi gopalpai

is this ur experience too or just have summed up the others ?

thanks



r_sorout2004   
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Post ID: #PID Posted on: 19-05-10 01:25:49

i think all these shocks are managable if someone has a zeal to win.



gopalpai   
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Post ID: #PID Posted on: 19-05-10 09:38:00

Maybe After I succeed in canada say in another 2-3 years time, I shall also talk about half empty and half full. Today while struggling, I am not in a mood to enjoy such sense of humour. Perhaps I may not enjoy this joke of half empty and half full ever, after achieving success in canada, because I will always be aware that, somewhere some newcomer/new immigrant is still suffering/ struggling in canada like we did and it will go on and on.:b

http://www.canadiandesi.com/read.php?TID=27872&page=1#163639


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meghal   
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Post ID: #PID Posted on: 19-05-10 10:09:16

Quote:
Originally posted by gopalpai

Today while struggling, I am not in a mood to enjoy such sense of humour. Perhaps I may not enjoy this joke of half empty and half full ever, after achieving success in canada,



I hope you are also not in mood to post any jokes today and realise that this forum is not to post 2-3 copy-paste jokes everyday.



morning_rain   
Member since: Feb 05
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Post ID: #PID Posted on: 19-05-10 10:13:27

Quote:
Originally posted by gopalpai

By this time you would have gone through the process of failing a few driving tests, (no you cannot pay the guy Rs.200/- like you did back in India) and finally getting your license (another cause of great celebration here).
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>Then installing an un-authorized satellite dish.
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>Then the real Canadian dream starts clearing your very own driveway of snow in winter, (clearing the same driveway of leaves in the fall), mowing the lawn, doing all the laundry, cooking and house cleaning by yourself. Because guess what? Your maid, driver and ironing guy are back in India, enjoying a cricket match on TV and telling their
family about what a nice time you must be having in Canada!
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>And while you are doing all of the above, plus trying to fix that leaky kitchen pipe (a plumber will charge $100 just to have a look), telling your kid who gets no homework to go study something, and wondering what kind of cereal you want for breakfast . . . keep telling yourself that you are happy because you are now living the Canadian Dream . . . . . .



I was feeling sympathetic while reading your story until I came across the above points:

1) No sympathy for someone who fails their drivers testing because they cant bribe the tester..how horrible of a driver are they?
2) No sympathy for having to install an illegal satellite dish to save $$...cable isnt a necessity of life..lots of people live without it.
3) No sympathy at all for losing all your domestic help. Adults can clean up after themselves.
4)I hate to say this but plumbers in India also charge you money to provide a service. Why complain about this in Canada? Also, eating cereal isnt a hardship. Its a choice.


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AshwaniG   
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Post ID: #PID Posted on: 19-05-10 10:16:22

http://www.garamchai.com/canada/

It is far not a joke . It is a different perspective of things in life . I do not count myself as successful here yet but I have no regrets of coming to Canada after leaving a very well paid job in S’pore . I had done and still do odd jobs from time to time .
I did not landed successful here and nor did any of my friends . Most of them had a zeal to success ,were hard working and consistent . In all past years , I had seen them ranting about Canada and how life was good back there , but none of them ( yes absolutely none of them ) went back . Some said it is due to their kids educations , some said that they bought property here and now are in a fix . So everyone stayed here on different pretext .
Have you ever wondered why people like GG ,BL , Chandresh PratikM, SS , Ftfl investpro , Hcheda ( and the list goes on ) have nothing negative to say about Canada ? Mind you I know some of them and they did not landed here with huge cash . I guess they are too busy to make life better instead of complaining .
I feel sad for the people who make such a big decision of migration based upon views of the person who is still struggling . But don’t you know inside that this struggle will pay you off some day , otherwise you would have gone back long time .
I am the person who like to regret things after attempting . I do not want rest of my life thinking – What if I have attempted what I wanted and succeeded .

Today ben has posted something to TK’s reply to which I applaud .



P.S: Strictly No offence meant to anyone and if someone feel hurt , I can remove the post immediately .


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