Very simple if someone don’t like or not happy here in Canada/US then can leave from here and go back to home country anytime.

If you like here don’t try to be monk or emotional that does not effect you: money/clean water/clean air/good medical/clean roads/good smiley face at service desk in private and public/courtesy people holding door for you and people use thanks/sorry day everyday life.

if you want to be here at all cost then start liking here and start thinking that this is our country and we have to be loyal and feel proud to be canadian/american.

--- Keeping feet/mind in two boats is not good for long time.

Thanks for your idea, by the way it is old and has been posted on CD since CD started, especially "if you dont like, you can go back" .....i will put it this way...if someone does not like, he has right to complain, if someone complains, you dont have right to tell him to go back coz u have not invited him here personally.....